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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 04:00

How does one succeed in life?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Making more friends is a goal.

Trump is going to target known criminals in the country illegally for deportation. The Democrats have vowed to fight him every step of the way. Don't they understand this is one of the issues that cost them the white house, the house and senate?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Ask yourself:

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Does not procrastinate.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How come Taiwan is LGBT friendly, yet Japan and South Korea are not?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.